Fathers and Daughters

by Alice on August 30, 2010 · 5 comments


What do you call it when seven girls, one little boy, and two dads spend a weekend away in a humble A-frame cabin on a beautiful lake? The best weekend, ever. Last Thursday my husband and our children along with his friend, Joe, and his daughters went away for one last excursion before the new school year would start. I went along for one night but for the rest of the weekend it was clearly a fathers-daughters weekend.

The weekend included a campfire, s’mores, hot dogs, old VHS movies, swimming, and being pulled by a speed boat on a 3 person tube doing doughnuts over and over and over on the lake in hopes someone would be thrown off to the cheers of many riding in the boat. My husband, Rob, is an amazing father. These types of weekends happen with regularity because he takes his role as a father quite seriously. From the moment my oldest daughter, Abigail, was born, Rob relished in his responsibilities as a father of a daughter. He has guided our children with empathy, compassion, understanding, discipline, and unconditional love. He volunteers at school, regularly takes the kids on father-daughters (and now father-daughters-and son getaways) to strengthen the bond between parent and child. continue reading…]

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Musings on Fear and Faith

by Alice on August 22, 2010 · 4 comments


There are more times than I wish to remember when I allowed fear to become the driver of this journey called life.

Here are a few things fear has done.

Fear disabled me for years in almost everything.  Fear convinced me to say “yes” to so many requests when deep inside I knew I should have said no.  Fear of rejection prompted me to go along with everyone else and at times allowed myself to be the punching bag for other people’s misery.  Fear liked to whisper in my ear late at night telling me I was no good and I would never amount to anything.  Fear liked to remind me of all the times I tried and failed and any thought at future attempts would result in the same.  Fear disguised itself as a well intended friend but in reality was my worst enemy.  Unfortunately, I grew up having fear as a constant companion, life without fear was not an option.  In a sick twisted way, fear was comforting because I could always rely and fall back on it. Oh the irony.

Faith.  My mother used to tell me if I had faith as small as a mustard seed, I could move mountains. continue reading…]

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Failing Foward-The Process of Learning From My Mistakes and Coming Out The Other Side

August 11, 2010

Failing Forward – The Process of Learning From My Mistakes and Coming Out The Other Side I find myself in a reflective state of mind a lot lately. When I say a lot, I mean exactly that. A year and a half ago my life was completely different. There was no blog of any sort, [...]

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Me, My Blog, and I

August 3, 2010

I find myself in one of the most chaotic, exciting, overwhelming, but hopeful seasons of my life. It’s crazy to think that not too long ago I started a little food blog to share the food I made for family and friends with the world. Now, in a few days I will be meeting with [...]

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What’s Up with Everyday Alice?

July 21, 2010

My apologies for the lack of consistent posts here on Everyday Alice.  I know I’ve been neglectful and feel a bit guilty about the whole thing.  When I started this site I wanted it to be a safe place for me to just shoot the breeze with you outside of Savory Sweet Life.  However, I’ve [...]

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Eli, Mama IPhone4, and a Kiss Attack

July 2, 2010

Thirteen years is a very long time to be loyal with a cell phone carrier. But last week I finally made the leap to At&T from T-Mobile. Lured by the new IPhone4, I was as excited as a little child waking up on Christmas morning when the Fed-Ex carrier knocked on my door and handed [...]

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Worlds Apart: Hollywood

July 2, 2010

Hollywood and Reality People watching can be so fascinating to the point it can be down right addicting. Case in point. My husband and I just returned from a trip to Los Angeles for the Dole California Cook-Off. We were treated to a wonderful stay at a fancy hotel in West Hollywood bordering Beverly Hills. [...]

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Everything is Relative

June 15, 2010

Yesterday I was looking through some old photos of one of my trips to Guatemala.  It’s impossible to remember everything that happened but these photos serve as a powerful reminder that everything is relative.  Sometimes I catch myself wishing we had a bigger house or a second car.  And just to clarify “bigger,” I mean [...]

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Keeping it Real – Monday Morning Blah…

June 7, 2010

My life is very predictable… some would even call it boring.  Occasionally something new, fun, or exciting happens but these types of things rarely occur.  Here I am on a Monday morning, looking out the window finding myself feeling a bit disappointed because it’s gray, wet, cold, and raining outside –typical Seattle weather.  Being the [...]

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The Power of Our Words

May 28, 2010

Words carry a magical power with the ability to impact others for good or bad.  Have you ever noticed this?  When was the last time someone said something to encourage you?  Do you remember the feeling you felt when this happened?  When this happens to me, I often feel empowered in a way I wasn’t [...]

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